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•  Best  Advice to a Woman for maintaining her home.

• BEST Tips for Becoming a Successful Stay-at-Home Dad

 Best  Advice to a Woman for maintaining her home.

Humility : why should a woman be humble? Because it is humility that will allow her to endure what she must endure and endure what she must endure without causing damage. In marriage there are often very hard blows and often also humiliations. A woman must be able to digest this.

The name of complicity : call your husband by a small name (my love, my baby, my darling) A good wife treats her husband like her baby while knowing that he is an authority. 5see the couple Sara and Abraham)

A good wife remains silent when her husband is angry with her. She talks to him when he's calmer unless he allows her to answer. She apologizes when necessary and sometimes even when there is no reason for peace to return.

A wife must always remain submissive even if the husband is bad, this attracts God's grace and favor on the children. (See the couples Sara and Abraham)

A wife must let her husband exercise his authority as the head of the family. A woman does not impose anything but she calmly and respectfully offers the husband the final decision. If she is against what the husband decides to do, she must get up in prayer and come back at the appropriate time to give him the reasons why she is against it. (Sarah and Abraham about Hagar)

A wife should be able to get home before her husband so as to reassure herself  that her husband is warmly welcomed when he returns from work or from a trip.

To unload him, relax him, put him at ease and above all serve him the meal and accompany him while he is at the table. One does not serve one's husband and then turns one's back as if giving food to the dog.

From time to time show him your love, tell him that you love him : on the phone or by any other means. Cuddle him, organize outings (even often at his own expense, talking about the wife helps to consolidate the household. Even if he does not ration you, prepare and serve food to your husband when he comes home afterwards his day or his trip.

The house should be clean , beautiful and welcoming. It contributes to peace, softens moods and above all a house is the reflection of the mistress of the house, it is the reflection of the woman.

Impress her husband and continue to impress him like the first time.

Take care of yourself : A wife must not let herself go because she is married, she must please and attract her husband every day and forever.

She must pray for her husband every day and for her home . Because nothing is possible without the grace of God. A good wife must have an eldest mother in the marriage to whom she can turn for advice. 

She should not be a spendthrift but rather thrifty so that the projects are carried out. 

A wife must play three roles : It is not easy but it is necessary and because of God and the children

• the role of the woman: sexual partner
•  the role of adviser: she must make her husband and children happy
•  the role of the mother: The mother loves unconditionally, affectionately, caring and above all having a forgiving heart.

No woman is perfect before marriage, nor during it. But we must be reassured that we marry the woman we love. Because only out of love, we will accept and forgive each other's faults and imperfections. 

And in the covenant of marriage, love will act and cause us to intercede so that it may walk on to perfection, spotless, without wrinkles, without blame: that is what Christ does for the church and that is what a husband should do for his wife.

A good wife should realize the grace of having her husband every day . Just as care must be taken not to lose one's salvation, a wife should never take a husband for granted. To do this, always maintain the initial flame, innovate in all areas: cooking, sexuality, clothing, hairdressing... so she has no choice but to cry out to God and depend on God. This produces a spiritual marriage and a marriage that will succeed if she has a repentant heart.

Even when you were born the same year, the months separate you and even if you were born the same month the days separate you, even if you were born the same day and the same hour the seconds separate you. This is evident with the birth of twins. So in a marriage we must be friends (same root as love) but everyone has their place. There is a boss.

BEST Tips for Becoming a Successful Stay-at-Home Dad

They're the ones who go above and beyond for their families and are considerate of how other people feel or what they might need. They take initiative, and don't give up even if something doesn't work out on the first try. Good dads are involved in family life and regularly show their gratitude.

Let it be a real choice

To become a fulfilled DAD - Stay-at-Home Dad - it is essential that this life choice is really one and not the consequence of a job loss or an unfortunate family event. This is also a choice that must be made as a couple, taking into account the wishes of each and the overall parental project.

Be aware of the number of hours devoted to the task

When you are a stay-at-home dad, the "work" hours are variable and extendable. Of course, a DAD is subject to 35 hours. The only difference with a traditional employee is that these 35 hours are done in a day and a half. In addition, a DAD(just like a MUM) has no sick leave, no night break,. To embark on the adventure without being aware of all this would be to go straight into the wall.

Leave yourself a way out

Even if, as mentioned in the first point, being a stay-at-home dad is a well-considered lifestyle choice, it is important to allow yourself the possibility of changing your mode of care and returning to something more traditional if the need arises. actually feel. No one really knows in advance whether their choices will be the right ones. So, knowing that one like the other, in the couple, can change organization is something reassuring.

Do not listen to retrograde remarks

Sometimes, generational conflict obliges, some people cannot repress a sort of disgusted pout when they learn that you are a stay-at-home father. It even happens that they add to this pout expressions like "wearing panties", "to be maintained", or worse, "woman's work". These people don't even deserve that we waste time and saliva answering them. It would be like wanting to do a Windows update on an old Mac.

Communicate with your better half to avoid frustration

The other parent may feel a little frustrated at not being able to witness all the stages of your child's development like you. To remedy this - blessed be our time and its new technologies - do not hesitate to regularly share photos, videos or even just regular little notes with her/him by email, text message or on social networks.

Make time for yourself

Even if PAF is a " full time job ", arrange to have a weekly time slot just for you. Two or three hours are enough to have the feeling of not devoting one's life to that alone. Take the opportunity to do what you love. Sport, hobby, idleness, etc. Its very important. For my part, my daughters went to the crèche every Thursday morning.

Don't be tempted by snacking

The home is the island of temptation in a dietary version. We peck, we take a candy here, a biscuit there, we don't prepare a real meal, but we eat a packet of crisps or a sandwich, in short, we can very quickly end up eating anything and anyhow. It's necessary to be vigilant.

Cuddling, playing, fooling around

Because there are not only chores in a stay-at-home father's day, it is important to know how to take full advantage of the tender and playful moments. Besides, the vacuum cleaner can perfectly wait an extra day when a cuddly emergency arises out of the blue.

Dare to say no to clichés

The most annoying thing when you are a stay-at-home father is to find yourself confronted with the clichés conveyed by advertising, the media in general or the people you meet. Faced with this type of situation, if it is not an irrecoverable retrograde, the urge to put people in their place should not be suppressed. No, a man is not going to systematically shrink or discolor a machine full of laundry. Yes, a father can take care of a baby as well as a woman.

Take advantage of the benevolence of others when you tell them that you are a great DAD

Luckily, most people who you tell you are a stay-at-home dad will react in an overwhelmingly positive way. In the eyes of some, you will even be a hero, a kind of super-dad. Of course, it is not. You are just a father who assumes his role. But you know what? As in all "work", it is good to feel valued. So enjoy!

Both, dad and mum, husband and wife or spouses should always being in love. Talk to each other in difficulties. Support each other. There is not couple without a problem or dispute. We all encounter problem in daily couple life . Whenever, it starts one partner should remain calm until this other feel less angry.